Well, Denodan, you have not actually given the impression of being genuinely interested in a debate – or even other people’s thoughts, if they do not follow your own – but hey ho, we can give it a try!
So, your key point here appears to be that you claim people treating their pleo like a ‘real pet’ is a factor in the de-humanising of society….WOW! That is some claim. You’ve also made it clear elsewhere that as far as you are concerned it is fact that people who enjoy dressing their pleos in clothes are stupid. Okay, so it seems that I am stupid and can “only relate to something that is not real”, because I am attached to my pleos (and aibos) and happen to like things that I find cute. Hmm, thank you so much for your opinions, but as it turns out, these are not facts. To be honest, your approach, which shows little consideration of people’s opinions and feelings, is essentially lacking in empathy – which I would personally view as ‘not relating to people’ particularly well….which you accuse people attached to their pleos of!
I have the impression that the people on here that are attached to their pleos and/or like to indulge them in the occasional outfit or cute accessory, are all pretty well rounded, considerate of other people and extremely well able to relate to humans (which, to be fair, you have shown rather less of yourself). To further your side of this debate, perhaps you could suggest some evidence to support that this is not correct? In addition, perhaps you could consider giving us enough credit to realise that we are not daft, we know that pleos are pleos, but we gain enjoyment from interacting with them as pets or as a real life forms – as they were intended to be interacted with. It doesn’t mean we have no boundaries or no grasp on reality, or cannot have a life with balance…it’s not actually all or nothing - you can have the pleasure of ‘believing’ in pleo whilst understanding that it is technically wires and plastic and programming and whathaveyou.
I also take offence to the fact that you apparently would deny me personally, the kind of relationship that you seem to view as important. So, I happen to have become increasing allergic with age, I haven’t encouraged this, but still I am stuck with it. I have no option whatsoever of having a biological pet. Full stop. According to you, I should just accept that, and what I should not do is feel I can have any kind of attachment to or bond with a pleo, which was specifically designed as a ‘life form’ rather than a robot, intended to be as lifelike as possible, to develop, to react to touch and stimuli. Nope, apparently only biological pets count, and those that cannot have a relationship with them should have no relationship or bond with anything. Hmm, but if I don’t experience bonding or caring, doesn’t that make me less human….? I am perfectly entitled to see my pleos as real pets – they are real pets for me, and the makers have done a good job of making that believable, should I choose to believe. Where do you draw the line anyway…is a goldfish a ‘real pet’ or not – I mean you can’t stroke it or have the same level of interaction with it as you would a pleo. Is a bird ok? A tortoise? Or only something like a cat or dog? In fact, it is interesting to note that there was a study that found aibo to have the same impact as a bio dog did, when visiting patients in a hospital – ie the increased emotional wellbeing, the pleasure brought by the interaction (I cannot remember off the top of my head any details but will try to dig it out if you would like).
But honestly, it is fine that you don’t see pleo as a real pet, no problem, it is a robot at the end of the day. People like different things, people attach different levels of meaning to different things, people all have different stuff going on in their lives, personal to them, shaping their views and emotions and beliefs. What is not fine is you coming along and telling people they are wrong because of their feelings about pleo…they are different views, but you cannot expect to state as fact that they are wrong, or stupid, and think that people will find that ok (especially if you join a pleo forum that clearly has a whimsical element…bob the tourist, tomato festivals,,,,and where many of the key contributors that have kept the forum alive make and sell things you label as stupid – not a great plan). You may seem more open to debate if you present your views more as views and not as facts, and if you spend a couple of moments thinking about the humans that you are talking so disparagingly about first.