Talon, I do know how you feel and it is a big thing to try and do, I know nothing about ipod phones so would not even know how to go about doing a video from one. I do think you have a good idea there asking the blind community to help you in this matter.I don't think the problem is so much that your nephew is young but the darkenss and the camera shaking makes it hard to see much of anything except the shakiness and a dark figure. Is there a way you can take it in a really well lit room, ( Perhaps ask your nephew which room is the brightest or put a lamp near Cato or closer to the camera. It may be hard due to his age to figure out exactly what you are asking him.
Do not feel you have to apologize, it is not a rotten video, just hard to see.I am so glad Crewella is working with you on this to get a friendly program, Nobody really can understand all you are going through unless in your shoes, and this is a perfect example. Things that are technological are not easy for lots of us to start with, then add in the X factor,( whatever it may be.) and you have added in another dimension to the problem you are working on.
Hope this makes you feel better, You are doing everything you can TAlon, Things should be easier and there has to be a program out there and a easier way to do what you are trying to do with Crewella's help, we just have not stumbled on it yet!

Hugs and Kisses to you and poor Cato! RWM and the Pleo Clan of the Redwoods