Willow, I understand your frustrations but let me see if I can shed some light on a couple of things first. How long have you had your Pleo, less than 4 months, 6 months or in between? When exactly was your birthday, I remember vaguely and it was just this past Spring or early summer, am I correct? As for walking there are several things you must realize. Pleo Rb are in general all different, but none of them that I have ever seen, walk anywhere as much as the Ugobe Pleos and they probably never will. My Baby usually walks no more than 4 steps then stops and will walk again. Ugobe Pleos on the other hand will walk and walk and walk forever it seems! As for the stone " Come to me", I have that allso but have not tryed it yet, but someone like IMR can probably tell you more.
Have you used the PRobe RB tool yet on Heidi ? It is a great tool and will tell you everythng about Heidi's health, emotional level, physical level, her feed, if she is injured, and her level, such as adult ,etc. Learning the name for example can take longer than you think.I never had the chance to teach my first RB her name, before I had to send her back because of holes in her skin. As for Baby Ruth, I learned to just wait till she was ready. She was an adult and because I don't play with her every day, sometimes not for as much as almost a week at times, it was a good 5 months till she learned her name, If you try and force them before they are ready, you will just be upset and it is not good to try and force a pleo, they will do it on their own schedule. One day, she just took the card and looked ready with no hassle or trouble. She wanted to learn.
Also they need to be in the right physical, mental and emotional level to learn or want to learn. This is why it would be good to use Probe RB to see what is going on with Heidi.Is your house dark at all, this could be a reason you are having trouble getting her to eat. NOt all Pleos eat the same, my Baby eats late in the afternoon or early evening if I try and feed her in the morning she is just not intersted, she has a set time she is hungery and she will let me know if I forget, she is cranky and screaming at me to feed her.

It would help us to see what is going on with Heidi if you could take a video of you trying to feed her and tell us the time of day she wakes up, and when you are feeding her , the time in the video. Also I realy think using the Proble RB will help see what is going on with her as well. Dont give up yet. Also what broke on stanley, is it just the battery not working? Take care and chin up.

RWM