You know I think there is TOO much emphasis on Bob and his questioning what he is doing? I think Bob is doing everything right, from his own state of consciousness,. What we have here is a " group Consciousness". When you get too many beings questioning what is going on with another individual, then the Group consciousness is probably going to go Down a notch......while Bob's goes up.

Bob knows what he is doing, he has everyone wrapped around his little Pleo tail, worrying about WHAT HE IS DOING AND THINKING, meanwhile, he is watching them all running around amok trying to figure out what is going on.
The only " mid Life crisis", I have ever experienced is watching the " middle" of what used to be my waist expand in it's own consciousness, esp after eating some lasagna, pizza, etc. I think Bob is having a good laugh right now and I am going to join him in that laugh!

Cheers to you Bob, for getting the " last laugh!.
RedwoodsMama and MS. Nova and ? friend